People say to me you need to RELAX, it's an easy word to say isn't it? Everything will be fine, just relax. For me to do this I need TIME, a luxury that I just don't have, but when I become snappy, over tired and feel as though my knuckles are dragging behind me as I walk, it's time to book time off and...
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A week booked off after an exhausting time and deciding what to do sends my mind into a whirl. With older teenagers that blissfully do not need me hanging around while they're both doing their own things, I have the luxury of having my own time off. No offspring to entertain, just selfish me!
Long walks, catching up with old and new friends (bang goes the diet!) and retail therapy. Things that make me happy along with planning to see historical buildings at the beginning of next month with incredible company.
Reading, photography, my pace.
Crossing bridges in my mind, some scary with no safety net.
This new found time in my life sees a new chapter, I was that feather in the wind that settled down and created a nest and now I'm rewarded with time that I can enjoy.
Don't get me wrong, I am a mother first and foremost and that will be my priority throughout my life, but I get reminded that "oh you have a BIG birthday coming up" again and again and then met with surprise when I say that I am REALLY looking forward to it. Life is to be embraced no matter how young or old, we have one life and that should be full of colour, humour, positivity and company of people we really care for with the same outlook.
Yes life's not perfect, it can sting at times, but since the New Year I made a decision that from then, no matter what comes my way, I will embrace it, look at things as I always do, positively and with humour. I am who I am, I will not change, not now.
And so, this week I'm RELAXING, doing what I want to do, selfishly, happily, no stress. Surrounded by positive people. laughter and things I enjoy. I think I've earned it! I'm also taking a mini blog break for a couple of weeks and come back with a few more trips. Trips that are going to fill my mind with history, photography, humour, knowledge. PERFECT!
Until then, have a wonderful Easter break along with capturing the growth of Spring or the onset of Autumn wherever you are in the world.
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